If you're looking for sympathy cards that don't suck, look no further than @amberskuipers. My cousin Amber has a line of sympathy cards, and they are great. These are just a few of them: succinct, thoughtful, and devoid of all the flowery sentiments which grieving people don't need to hear. There's one I wish I had ordered (and will order later) that just says, "Well, this sucks (I'm so sorry)", which is a card I need for all sorts of situations.